I don’t sell fitness plans. I don’t post mirror selfies.
I just train. Five days a week. Every week. For nearly seven years straight.
I walked into my first gym in 8th grade. My dad brought me into a Navy base gym and lit a spark that’s never gone out. A couple years later, I got an Olympic weight set for Christmas. By the end of high school, I was training with a former D1 running back who became my first real gym mentor.
For most of my life, I trained 3 to 5 days a week whenever I could. But raising six kids, running companies, and coaching year-round varsity football meant consistency came in waves.
I had just finished coaching my last football player. Around the same time, I tore my calf and blamed it on “getting older.” But I knew better. That moment flipped a switch.
I wasn’t going to slide quietly into decline. I made a decision:
Five days a week. No excuses. No negotiations.
Since then, I’ve missed maybe a few days per year. Usually for travel. Never because I didn’t feel like it. This isn’t a phase. This is who I am.
I’m up at 3:15 AM. In the gym by 4:30. Done by 6:30.
Right now, it’s just me and my 24-year-old son.
We train. We push. We plan. We talk. We stay sharp.
It’s more than lifting. It’s structure, clarity, and fire before sunrise.
That’s what I told one of my former gym partners, the day he asked about my routine.
He used to train after work. I asked how often life got in the way. Meetings. Fatigue. Kids. All of it.
That conversation changed his life. And it reminded me why I do this.
Discipline doesn’t show up when it’s convenient. It shows up when no one else does.
Macros and calories matter, especially if you’re prepping for the stage or chasing extremes. But if you’re just starting out, the biggest shift happens in the basics:
This isn’t about abs or PRs. It’s about being the kind of man who keeps his word, even when no one’s watching. Especially when no one is watching.
Who shows up when it’s hard.
Who doesn’t wait to be inspired.
He leads by example.
Grounded in discipline. Driven by purpose. Building a life—and legacy—that reflects more than one title.